Saturday, October 5, 2013

On October 3rd he asked me what day it was..

Okay, okay I'm a couple days late with the mean girls reference, but in my defense, the inspiration for this post came when I was sitting in a high school cafeteria (ironically enough) on Mean Girls Day, October 3, 2013. 

Here's the thing- it doesn't matter how many years pass, Mean Girls will still be relevant. As a college rep who spends a considerable amount of time interacting with high school students, I consider myself fully qualified in making that bold of a statement. Over the last couple weeks, I have had numerous visits at different high schools all across my region, each different, yet the same

Observation Number 1: boys (for whatever reason) think it is hilarious to put bumper stickers on their foreheads. What? Why? There is no answer.
ON (ON = Observation Number (see what I did there?)) 2: the cool kid always thinks he can get away with hitting on everyone (teachers included... high school is a weird place, alright).
ON 3: All principles carry a certain level of arrogant confidence, and it is easy to spot one that the students do not respect.
ON 4: High School cafeterias (or other general meeting areas) are best summed up by this photo, as described in the ever applicable, Mean Girls.
I was located somewhere near the vending machines. Where does that put me on the social ladder??
In conclusion:


  1. The cool kid (you know, the one who flirts with the teacher) will also kick open the cafeteria door in an attempt to wow his lackeys.
  2. Shy kids will duck their head an walk away when greeted with a simple "hello" from a stranger.  :(
  3. The beautiful girls will always be masters at pretending to ignore equally attractive boys in an attempt to gain their attention.
  4. Freshman boys love to strut in their JV uniforms.
  5. Cheerleaders. Ugh.
  6. Lunch time is sacred.




Tuesday, October 1, 2013

the girl who runs

My whole life I have been the girl who reads. It was my identity. I mean, let's be real, I could read before I even started kindergarden. I LOVE TO READ. Always have, always will. I believe in correlation with this, I naturally excelled at school (except calculus, bleh). I was valedictorian, I scored big with scholarships for college, and I graduated Summa Cum Laude (I had a 3.97 for anyone wondering). I did all of those things with relative ease
See how pretty my bookshelf is??
You know what doesn't come naturally?
  • Gymnastics
  • Pom
  • Cheer
  • Dancing
  • Softball
  • Basketball
  • Running
  • Exercise in general
But wait, your observant mind ponders, isn't this post titled the girl who runs?? To which I cheerfully reply, "yes, yes it is." That is because for the last year of my life I have been embarking on a journey that is about more than academia where I have long risen above the norm. On Tuesday, November 6th, 2012, I became a runner. The best part of it all is that I ran my first mile on impulse after working out for half an hour on the elliptical. It was exhilarating. Fast forward 11 months, and we find the reading girl 53 days from her first half marathon... 

The beautiful part of my transformation from the girl who reads to the girl who reads and runs, is that it has challenged me to my core. The only person who can finish those 13.1 miles is.... me. That is terrifying and freeing at the same time. When I cross that finish line, I might as well be conquering the world, because that is all I have left when I'm done. Until then, I leave you with a memento from my first race.
3rd Place!!


Monday, September 30, 2013

An Intro to Being 20 Something

In a previous blog I started by saying that I am not doing this in attempt to seek anyone's attention or approval. My hope in even writing a blog is simply to be able to remember the little things when I am consumed by the rest of my life. If you are (un)lucky enough to find (and love?) my writing, enjoy....

As a lifelong introvert, my career is beginning in an interesting place: College Recruiting. I (someone who has always reveled in a quite evening alone) am a professional conversationalist. And the craziest part is... I actually enjoy it. I have found something I feel confident about and am pleased when I think about the possibilities for my long term career. Isn't that what being 20 something is about? 











So if being a real life Tina Fey to the College Recruiting Circuit isn't the secret to successfully being in my 20s, what is? Friendship? Love? Building a family? Travel? I guess that is what I have the next few years of my life to discover.

Like everyone else (or maybe no one else) my age, I am stuck wondering if I actually am an adult or if my Financial Aid check is just a few months late this semester. The beautiful thing is this- I have my whole life to figure it all out, and that is perfectly wonderful by me.